"This blog is for all of you between the ages of 40 and 60 who find yourselves divorced, confused and frightened by the new world of midlife dating, and need to make sense of it all. It’s a place for me to not only share with you what I’ve learned, but for all of you to share what you’re learning and to ask questions as well… not only of one another, but of me too. While my second marriage was imploding in 1998, I found myself on a new journey as the world around me was in the midst of rapid change too. At the time, dating sites were very new and incredibly primitive (does anyone remember early Match.com?). However, even then the uniqueness of dating in midlife had already become evident in the rapidly emerging ‘techno-realm’ of the world-wide-web. I now consider myself to be someone who is ‘seasoned’ (to say the least) when it comes to dating in midlife... not because I wanted to learn that skill, but simply from mistakes and experience. I’ve learned a lot that I can pass on to you in hopes of saving you some of the mistakes that I've made as well as helping you move forward with your heart as easily as possible."