A phenomenon that seems to be more and more prevalent is that of people getting on the net to look for someone to date, or are looking for their potential mate, yet they aren’t even close to being ready for someone in their lives.
In some cases, people realize they aren’t yet ready in their lives, but just want to see what’s out there. In other cases, there are those whom loneliness is driving so deeply that they don’t yet understand that they have a greater amount of healing to go through. Yet there are still others whom fear and insecurity drive so deeply that they are looking for someone, not realizing how poisonous fear and insecurity are to a burgeoning relationship.
Basically, if you’re not ready, you’re not ready! If you’re not ready (or able) to open your heart to another, don’t make it appear that you are. To put your heart out there and to then suddenly remove it, once someone else becomes attracted to it, sets up so many for disappointment and pain unnecessarily so.
Take care of your heart.
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